Dr. Wapnir has a huge ego! She is a jerk! She has no time for patient care, she spent 5 mins at my consultation after making me wait for several hours, then interrupted my consult by receiving a phone call, was away for 45 mins, came back and gave hurried instruction to the fellow doctor who was clearly frustrated! Her breast cancer treatment plan was poor and not based on thorough diagnostics. She is a poor communicator, she withholds key information that are required for the proper decision making for the patient's best interests. She makes surgery plans without checking the whole problem, does not budge from it to change plans even if new findings come up. She refuses to allow radiology referrals to follow-up on radiology recommendation, you have to fight for it dearly. She refuses referral to plastic surgery, or radiation oncology prior to surgery, her nurse lied about the process saying they refer after surgery and radiation treatment is completed, which is a disasterous lie, as I found out after second opinions! She records lies and manipulations in your after-visit summary, in order to make her case for surgery solid to suit her convenience, and not what's best for you, without your knowledge! Demand for and check everything, she and her team are not trustworthy! Her lack of involvement and irresponsible behavior prompted me to take second opinions, and thank god for that, I was somewhat saved! Do not go with her if you are an Asian! I've never seen her smile, she was plain rude and condescending! She has no empathy! She will intimidate you and make it sound like you are wasting her time and that all your questions are unfounded and stupid, and I'm an Engineer/not stupid!Adding this upon reading the review below by D.G., I completely agree with every thing you wrote, except want to add that she was the same even when I gave her the honor of providing first opinion! My experience with her on that fateful day, at first consultation for breast cancer, on Nov 18, 2021 was ditto, and it then set my entire breast cancer journey into a turmoil. I also felt sympathy for the fellowship doctor under her! Dr. Wapnir made surgery plans and booked OT time, without checking MRI on both breasts. I had to advocate for myself all along, my trust was broken systematically, I was extremely stressed out, fought my way through everything until a day before surgery I found out that she lied about my biopsy report and claimed benign areas were all cancerous, without releasing my report. She was all set to operate on me on Dec 22, 2021, saying everything biopsied was cancerous. She was going to put in a BioZorb, without exposing what benefits it provided and without allowing consult with radiation oncologist to find out for myself as to whether or not it would help with radiation treatment! When questioned, she said she won't put in the BioZorb if I didn't want it. How on Earth should I know whether or not I want it, especially when she won't let me speak with the radiation oncology?! She refused to refer me for plastic surgery consult either, all while another patient (Dr. Dirbas's patient) told me that she had been through a class along with 7 other women during that same timeframe in Dec 2021, when they were all thoroughly informed about their plastic surgery options so they could decide what's best for themselves. Why was I not allowed the same experience?! In my case, Dr. Wapnir was artificially controlling my options until I found out about her lies the day before surgery and cancelled it. Her department management then took over to bully me and came down heavy with their official letters that blamed me squarely with more lies and manipulation of facts, and they denied service. They are very, very bad human beings. I suffered harassment and torture at their hands, which continued to impact me everywhere else I went, including at UCSF and Sutter Health! These people in medical care are repulsive indeed! They do not deserve all the respect they are given. Down with Stanford breast cancer surgery department! I have nothing better to say about UCSF either. The politics transpires from Stanford onto UCSF seamlessly... note that these two organizations were one and the same until some years back. So there are old timers sitting on each other's boards and controlling things. There'd be hope only after they all retire and let go of their powers! Until then, they are into practicing cancel culture with fake stories and blame games on anyone who found out about their dark secrets! Sutter Health is providing some filler service currently. While I'm seeking follow up care far away in another State!